Tips for Creating A Super Personal Online Dating Profile - II February 1, 2008
Posted by admin in : Tips and tricks , add a comment Tag:No TagsBe honest:
Many people cant resist the urge to be less than completely honest when writing their online personals profile. Women tend to lie about their appearance and men about their status and physical prowess. Theres really no need. Online dating and personals services have thousands if not millions of members. Youve got a great chance of meeting someone whos attracted to the real you, warts and all. Of course, theres no need to tell your darkest secrets just keep it real. Youll be able to pursue relationships without having to worry about all the lies youve spun.
Be passionate about your passions:
If you have a hobby or interest that youre absolutely passionate about, that takes up a lot of your time and energy, go ahead and rave about it. Its better that people know up front how important it is to you, and fellow fanatics will tune right in!
Stick to your own style:
Many online dating profiles include sections where you can express yourself in your own words. Its a chance to make yourself more human and real, and other members can pick up lots of interesting information about you clues they might find appealing - from the way you express yourself. Dont block the process by suddenly adopting a style and tone that isnt really you.
Be careful with humor:
Humors great but a super-dry or tongue-in-cheek sense of humor may not work well in writing. People dont know you and cant see the twinkle in your eye. Youll have ample opportunity to display your brand of wit when youre communicating one-on-one with other members.
Be positive:
Our bugbears say something about the type of person we are but keep them to a minimum in your profile or theyll say something bad! Focus on the things that make you feel good and you’ll come across as a fun date.
Dont dwell on past relationships:
Too much talk of past relationships is a sure way to scare off potential dates. It doesnt show much commitment to moving along in life with someone new. However, some services touch on the subject in their profiles in which case you can give it a more interesting, positive twist by talking in general terms about lessons learned, where you are today and what your hopes are for future relationships.
Describe the kind of dates you enjoy:
Make it easy for people to ask you on a date by giving them an idea of the kind of dates you enjoy. For instance, I like a relaxing atmosphere where you can chat and get to know someone, or, Doing something new and exciting together is a great way to get to know someone.
Describe your ideal match in your own words:
If you have an opportunity to describe the type of person youre looking to meet in your own words, use it. If someone reads your profile and likes you, theyll know right away whether or not theyre a likely candidate for your affections. On the other hand, dont be too picky or demanding! One idea is to limit yourself to the three or four attributes that you value most in a partner and perhaps one big turn off (you want to keep it positive overall).
Promote yourself as a great date:
When someone likes what they read in your profile, theyll probably wonder what kind of date youd make. For instance, perhaps youre a good listener who likes a quiet, relaxing atmosphere where you can talk and get to know someone, or a sociable energetic type who thinks that doing something new and exciting together is the best way to get to know someone.
Create a Master Profile:
Save all your profile information and entries in a master file so you dont have to start from scratch if youre planning on using more than one service. Profiles vary considerably from service to service but many parts will be similar.
Make Changes:
Last but not least, dont forget that your profile isnt written in stone! Its fast and easy to make any changes you like, so dont fret too much about perfection!
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