Friendship with benefits is one of the most attractive forms of casual hookup. You know a person very well, you trust each other, and you do not have any extra expectations other than getting laid.
However, it’s important to meet up really casually, for instance, once a week. Twice a week feels like a relationship already, as more as you have so much in common as the old-time friends.
Experts recommend, if you see each other often for sharing hobbies, better stay on a distance during that and hookup only twice a month. It will help you two not to cross the line of casual affair.
“My buddy with benefits is a very nice guy, we seem to know each other for years”, Ann says. “I certainly want him when we enjoy sports or dining with friends, but we learnt well to control ourselves.
We quickly understood it will be awkward if we have sex most of the time, so we follow our schedule and hookup once a month, sometimes twice. It’s safer this way, and helps us remain friends”.